Unearthing the Musings of the Heart

I always thought that by the time I was in my 30’s I’d have it all figured out. Here I am 32 years old. I don’t have it all figured out....

Less than Lazy Unmotivated Not good enough Old fashioned Free loading Not independent Lacking intelligence Pathetic Listed above are some...

Root causes have been a recurring theme in my conversations and thought life lately. So many of us want quick fixes, but we don’t slow...

Lately, I’ve noticed a lot of attention on the struggles of parenthood and marriage. I think that’s great. I love the openness and the...

I’ve been wanting to write this one for a while, but haven’t had the right inspiration until today, International Day of The Midwife. I...

If you are single, badly want to be married and have a family, and struggling to find the right person, I know what you are going...

Let’s address this idea that is so widely spread in the Christian community that if you have sex before marriage you are somehow now...

Harmonizing is not something that came easily to me. For a long time, I just couldn’t figure it out. It’s something I’ve had to work hard...

I have not been making friends lately. I think my filter broke. I feel like I found a piece of myself and my voice again. I shut it down...

The day we left for Florida, I was so exhausted and stressed out from the insanity of all we had going on in our lives on top of cleaning...

I was watching an episode of Friends one day several years ago, and when invited to go somewhere, Phoebe responds, “I wish I could, but I...

Yesterday was supposed to be our first relaxing family day since before my surgery. Then we realized we had to lead worship at church,...

My personality is naturally geared towards people pleasing. Disappointing or upsetting people makes me really uncomfortable. Because of...

Exactly four years ago today, it was a Friday, and I was engaged. I had the dress, the venue, the DJ, the photographer, the centerpieces,...

Let’s normalize the discussion of sex in the Christian community. There are so many misconceptions that seriously need to be addressed....

I had heard that some people die just from going under anesthesia. After some googling, I found that this is rare, but true. I also kept...

The last couple days I have been feeling afraid about my upcoming surgery. I was definitely low key shaming myself for feeling this fear,...

I had a bone marrow biopsy done last week. The results came back earlier this week, negative, thank God. Next, on February 17th, I have...

Messing up isn’t an option. It’s a given. Bear with me in this blog, as I shift back and forth between children and us, meaning adults,...

****Somehow I accidentally deleted this, so here it is again....**** My name is Kelsea. You may know my name, but do you truly know me? I...